Engagement Preparations Part 2

Huh it's been a while since my last update kn? Been busy la. FYI, Ayu ada 2 blog yg harus Ayu maintain sorg2 ok. My first blog would be my on9 bussines. For those yg x tau bussiness ape yg Ayu wat, boleh singgah kt sini

http://www.bnsyg.blogspot.com/ (Dah tak menjual tudung dah hehe)

So of course, to maintain 2 blogs at the same time is not easy dear and my priority kenalah ke bussines dulu. That's the main reason yg Ayu susah nk update personal blog ni. Sorry ye (Budget cam ada je org nk baca blog ni heh :p)

Ok enough about that. Let's move on to the topic shall we? Last entry Ayu ada ckp psl nk g tgk butik pelamin kn? So kebetulan on 26th Feb 2010 public holiday. Ayu ambik inisiatif klua cr brg2 tunang on that day walaupun penat keja x abis lg. Huh! Yela klu x, smpi bila x siap2 kn? My planning for that day utk tgk bj and g butik tgk contoh2 pelamin. So pg around 11am Ayu dh siap nk g Semenyih ngan my dear friend Niza. Oh 5rz x de on that day sbb 5rz kena keja hr Sabtu. So what a waste la kn klu dia blk sehari je. Huhu.... Smpi je Semenyih kami disambut oleh bibik mak chu. Hehe. Ayu pnjm bj mak chu je sbb masa dh x smpt nk tempah2 bagai. Mesti semua tertanya-tanya kenapa pnjm bj mak chu? Mak chu Ayu muda ke? Sama saiz ke? Hahaha. FYI, mak chu Ayu dh kawin ada 3 anak lg. Tp yg envy nye, badan mak chu ttp la slim u alls. Hr tu mak chu x de kt umah tp mak chu mmg dh siapkn semua koleksi bj yg dia nk suruh Ayu try. There was like 8 bj kot if I'm not mistaken tp mata Ayu ni dh tgk first bj warna pink belacan n dlm hati Ayu kate "Hmm warna pink tp pink x cantik la plak" Serius dlm hati ckp rasa x kn pilih bj tu. Huhu last2.............. Semua dh tau kn? Tgk pic Ayu kt ats 2 sure korg dh leh agak. :)

Ok2, lps try all the bj, Ayu kenan ngan 2 bj je. I mean yg kena ngan Ayu la. Actually first time Ayu pki bj pink belacan 2 mmg dh fall in love tp Niza plak suruh Ayu pki bj yg warna hijau tu. Susah nk wat pilihan. Tanya bibik, bibik ckp mana2 pun boleh. Last2 Ayu call mak chu n tanya boleh x nk bwk blk dua2 bj sbb x tau nk pilih yg mana. (Actually dh tau tp nk tanya pendapat 5rz n mak. Hehe)

Lps je minum n lepak2 jap umah mak chu, we went to butik kt mane eh? Lupa la. Niza yg tnjk jln. Butik ni pun Ayu tau dr adik 5rz, Noi. Cr punya cr, jmpa. Butik ni simple je. G butik sbb nk tgk mini pelamin je. Tp ter-tgk la skali koleksi bj yg dia ada skali ngan package make up. Ayu actually nk mini pelamin yg ala2 klasik gitu. Minat ngan satu pelamin ni tp akak tu kate better Ayu wat yg ada stage. Oh maksud klasik di sini, cam x de pape. Just alas bantal je. No stage, no spot light. Biasa2 aja. Mcm dlm gmbr bwh ni

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Last2 x de kate putus pun yg Ayu kasi kt owner butik tu. I said that I'll contact her if anything. But rasa cam nk ambik package dia. Below are the details of her package :

1. Mini pelamin (Whatever colours that you want) - Ada stage, mini tangga, bantal duduk (saiz lebar), langsir backdrop, 2 spot light and akak tu tolong pasangkn semua. Total would be RM 250 + RM 30 for petrol. Kakak tu boleh kasi 2 FOC flowers utk letak kiri kanan stage.
2. Mini pelamin (Whatever colours that you want) - Ada stage, mini tangga, bantal duduk (saiz lebar), 2 spot light and 2 flowers utk letak kiri and kanan, no backdrop (boleh guna langsir or backdrop sendiri) tp kita ambik and kte pasang sendiri then after that, kte kena send blk all the items. Total would be RM 70.
3. Utk make up tunang plak RM 150 termasuk veil, selendang and aksesori kepala and FOC hand flowers.

Lebih kurang cam tu la harga package2 dia. Nk senaraikn semua cam byk je kn. Ni Ayu senaraikn semua yg Ayu actually interested je. So until we meet up for the next entry ya.

ps:/ Updated on 23 August 2023

{From Ayu with ♥}

Engagement Preparations Part 1

During the risik time, my future mother in law dh ttp kn nk wat majlis tunang on 13th March 2010. (Damn I was hoping to do it on 20th or 27th. 20th because it's my anniversary but unofficial one while 27th is my bday!) So since his mom dh ttp kn my dad pon ckp that hopefully that date never change cause it's like less than a month to prepare. Saya pon tiba2 jd gelabah.

First plan was to do a simple one. I mean like no hantaran were given. Just a sarung cincin ceremony. Then discuss punya discuss, 5rz kate ramai makcik2 dia nk kasi itulah inilah. So acara tukar2 hantaran tu pon terpaksalah diadakn. Luckily for him because all the hantarans was given from his aunty, company and client except the ring.

Since we got less than a month, every week we went out utk cr brg2 preparations. First week after the risik time tu we both went out with his sister. Smpi kt shopping mall br la terkial-kial nk pk hantaran nk kasi ape. Then 5rz dgn selamba ckp, jom la kte g MPH beli pen n small note. Hahah dlm hati Ayu rasa cam kelakar la!

Ok2 selesai menyenarai pendekkn list2 of hantaran, we went to cr mini pelamin plak. Again x de arah tuju. We all like klua jln2 n cr je mana yg jmpa tepi2 jln tu. Rasa sgt blur (yela first time wat2 semua ni) Jln punya jln, jmpa satu kedai tepi jln ni tp time tu hujan sgt lebat. Smpi je depan pintu ada notis kedai ttp. Adeh setelah meredah hujan yg begitu lebat, ttp plak kedai. Ok so everything happend for a reason. So now I'm aware that butik2 pengantin ni akn bukak upon appointment only ye. (Ke semua dh tau? Am I the only one that unaware about this??? Damn!!!) Then suddenly, Noi (5rz's sis) ckp dia ada kenal 1 akak ni yg ada butik pengantin. So ape lg, she called, ask about the mini pelamin, bj, make-up and all. So kira dh settle. Second week Ayu wat appointment g butik dia. Suka2!!! :)

That's all about my early preparation for my E-day. So at the end of the day, we end up with buying nothing just a small pink note and a black pen (Pink note 2 saya yg pilih ye. Haha comel je tgk 5rz bwk buku tu ke mana2.)

Ni la pink note + black pen yg kami beli

Ni plak, 5rz menyenarai kn bil pihak dia yg akn dtg

{From Ayu with ♥}

How, Where And When It All Starts

It was Sunday morning on January..... (I couldn't remember the date but somewhere at the end of the month if I'm not mistaken). On our way to somewhere (again, I couldn't remember), he hold my hand and ask me whether we should buy an engagement ring. (Tadaaaa...) I was like.... what??? The conversations between me and 5rz :-

5rz : Syg.. (While holding my hand, ok x islamic ckit kt sini!!!) Kte g beli cincin tunang nk?
Ayu : Ha??? (Making my shocking face but deep in my heart I was like, weee~~~. Then I remain silent for a while....................................................) Kenapa tiba2?
5rz : Tiba2 ape? Mmg nk tunang pon kn?
Ayu : B dh ckp ngan mak ayah belum?
5rz : Belum.
Ayu : Ckp la dulu then br kte g beli cincin ok?
5rz : Beli jela dulu utk prepare.
Ayu : X payah la. Syg x nk prepare ape2 selagi B x ckp ngan mak n ayah. Nnti syg get too excited to wear the ring tau. So cam x best la kn?
5rz : Senyum then diam je......................

Then after that we all pun menuju ke destinasi which I really can't remember where. Duh!! At home, I'm thinking about what 5rz said earlier. Deep in my heart, seriously Ayu mmg excited nk tunang. Hey who doesn't?

Then two weeks after that, time Subuh2 before he went back to Malaca for work, he told his mom about the 'plan'. (He's too afraid to let his father know first. Hahaha I don't know why) Later during lunch, he called and said "B dh bgtau kt mak and mak ckp nnti dia bncg ngan ayah" (Double wee~~) Oh before I forgot, that time nearly chinese new year.

On the 12th of February 2010, he went back from Malaca. He went off early that day, so he was at my offc to pick me up. Than after that, we had our dinner and guess what??? Terserempak plak ngan kwn lama kteorg, Imran. Imran said that 5rz makin gemuk which is so true. :D I was on duty the very next day (13th February 2010) Duh!! Malas amat dong. Then mcm biasa la, dgn penuh harapan yg mengunung, harap2 5rz dpt ambik Ayu from work. Then he text me :-

"B tau syg nk suruh B ambik syg kn? Sorry la B x boleh la. B ada hal nk kena bwk mak g Rawang nk jmpa pakcik utk discuss psl kte"

Saya tersenyum simpul while reading the msg. Hehehe :)

Around 3 pm, he text me again saying :-

"Mak nk dtg merisik cuti ni (CNY Hols) And mak ckp nk wat majlis tunang bln 3 ni"

I loike it more baby! That was my plan actually to do the ceremony on March! Yeay~~

On that day itself, I went dinner with my family at Nandos, KLCC. Then bermula la debaran to make an annoucement.

Ayu : Ayah ngan mak ada x Isnin ni?

Ayah : Ada nape?

Ayu : Hmm (drum plz........................................................) X de family 5rz nk dtg merisik Isnin ni boleh?

Mak : Nk dtg merisik? (Nada terkejut. I'm more to my mom. Drama queen but I'm worst! Haha) Dh nk tunang ke?

Ayu : Hmm (angguk2 geleng2. eh x. angguk2 je)

Mak : Nk dtg kul brape?

Ayu : Ntah suka hati la mak ayah nk suruh dia dtg kul brape?

Mak : Wat ptg senang la kn? Lps Asar? Betul x?

Ayu : Hmm Ayu pon rasa. Senang. (Padahal malas nk msk lauk bagai. Hi tea senang ckit)

Ayah : Hmm boleh la. Dtg Isnin lps Asar.

Mak : Nk kena wat pape ke?

Ayu : Msk simple2 dh la mak. Wat mee hoon ke. Tmbh la kuih2 ckit. 5rz pon x beli cincin risik lg. Esk br nk beli.

Ayah : X payah la cincin risik. Kasi cincin tunang terus (I prefer this actually. I don't want my fingers covered with the crowd of jewelleries.)

Mak : Eh biarlah 5rz nk kasi cincin. (Huhu......)

Then that was it.

We manage to get the ring and siap ada ukir nama Fairuz & Ayu lg. My tips for risik:-

1. Wat se simple boleh dh la. Plan awal2 (Mine was quite late)
2. Klu boleh survey harga emas awal2 supaya x t'kejut time nk beli cincin nnti. Skrg emas naik. :(
3. Utk risik beli cincin belah rotan dh la. But it's up to everybody jgk. Klu ada rezeki lebih ape salahnya.
4. Wat time merisik after Asar so that you don't have to cook too much and again it's all depends. Some people wat merisik skali ngan tunang and some people seperate those two ceremony (Mcm Ayu la. Wat asing2 even tho my first plan was to combine it together)
5. X payah la ajk ramai2. Merisik je br.

And so majlis pon berjln ngan lancar (Eh tetiba karangan ni dh jd karangan rojak! Adeh!) Saya telah dirisik on 15th March 2010 and no picture was taken from that day. It was really simple ceremony (Ask my friend Niza) The funny thing that I still can remember during that day was the conversation between my dad and 5rz.

Ayah : 5rz betul nk Ayu ni?

5rz : Hmm.... (I guess he was smiling during this)

Ayah : Betul ni? Dh tau perangai Ayu ni?

Mean while, Niza and I was laughing malu2 gitu. Adeh ayah ni pon. Huhu.....

{From Ayu with ♥}